Wednesday, October 21, 2015

Sex Education: Best Treatment For Small Penis?

Today I want to share with you a very interesting study I recently came across. The name of the study is "Treatment of men complaining of short penis" and was published in 2005. Purpose of the study was to report the outcome of a sex education-integrated treatment program on men complaining of a short-sized penis.

The study included 92 patients who presented at the Department of Andrology and Sexology of Cairo University Hospital, Egypt. As aforementioned, all men thought that they had a small-sized penis. The researchers first collected medical history, stressing on the duration of the complaint and sexual habits of the patients. Patients were also asked to complete the International Index of Erectile Function (IIEF-5) questionnaire and were tutored by an andrologist on sex education.

The researchers then measured penile length and girth twice using a tape measure in both flaccid and fully stretched states. Each patient was informed that if his flaccid and stretched penis size was 4 cm and 7 cm [or more] respectively, he was considered normal. I disagree with this part as I believe that a 9-10 cm long penis might fall within the "normal range" but it is still quite small and possibly a deal-breaker for many women. But that is just my opinion. 

According to the study, not even a single man was found to have a micropenis. Which is quite surprising considering that all patients compained for having a small penis. The researchers also noted that the majority of the patients found the combination of sex education with standard penile measurements helpful and relieving.

"Men complaining of short penis could be treated using basic principles of sex education with objective methods of penile size evaluation. This combination can correct any previous sexual misconceptions, relieve unnecessary anxiety concerning penile size, and decrease the desire to undertake still-to-be verified lengthening procedures.", conclusion of the study.

Some thoughts
For me, what is so important about this study is that it showcases a very common male problem. And that is how almost every guy thinks he has a very small penis when in fact he is average or just slightly small! If you want to keep something from this study is that knowledge is power. 

If you think your penis is small and thinking of having surgery or other penis enlargement options please first educate yourself on the human penis size. Chances are you will save money, time and regain your confidence just by knowing you are actually average!

- Shamloul, Rany. (2005-06--1) Treatment of men complaining of short penis. , 65(6), 1183-1185. DOI: 10.1016/j.urology.2004.12.066

Monday, October 19, 2015

Crossdresser James (Photo Submission)

 I go by James.  I prefer baby cock to micro penis.  I love having a baby cock and shave my pubic hair into a vertical strip.  The vertical strip makes my baby cock look so tiny and sexy.  I always wear fishnet body stockings with open crotch to show off my baby cock package.  On a good day my erection is 6 cm but typically its between 4-5 cms.  I love having women making fun of my baby cock it's such a turn on.

Saturday, October 17, 2015

Micropenis Support Group (Funny Video)

Something different today, just for the laughs... A funny video by "Funny Or Die". Jason goes to his first micropenis support group meeting and discovers that there just may be a way for him to work with his condition.


Friday, October 16, 2015

Micropenis & Penoscrotal Hypospadias (Video)

This video shows a male infant with micro penis and penoscrotal hypospadias, a type of hypospadias. Hypospadias refers to a urethral meatus ("pee-hole") that is located along the underside, rather than the tip of the penis. Video by Dr Attia Elbagoury.

three types of hypospadias, subcoronal midshaft and penoscrotal

Thursday, October 15, 2015

Intersex Person with a Micropenis and a Rudimentary Vagina Recognised as Gender Neutral

A French court has set a European precedent by granting a 64-year-old intersex* person with a "micro-penis and a rudimentary vagina" the right to write "gender neutral" on official forms and papers.

However, the state prosecutor has appealed the decision in Tours, central France, over fears that the ruling might lead to other cases across the country demanding recognition of a "third sex".

The case was brought by an intersex person born with both male and female genitals. Referred to as "ile" - a cross between the third person “he” and “she” in French - the unnamed person has a micropenis, a vagina, no testicles and doesn't produce sexual hormones.

"My client was born with masculine and feminine genital organs, in other words a rudimentary vagina, a micro-penis and no testicles. Some 1.7 per cent of newborns have this condition, but doctors normally operate straight after birth to remove one or the other external genitalia and pronounce the person a girl or a boy." said Mila Petkova, the unnamed person’s lawyer.
"During adolescence, I understood that I wasn't a boy. I never had a beard, my muscles never really developed, but at the same time, it was impossible for me to think I'd ever become a woman. I only had to look in the mirror to realize that." said the 64-year-old to French newspaper 20 Minutes.

As of today, the 64-year-old had been referred to as Monsieur. He is also married to a woman and the couple has adopted a child . But after the August 20 ruling, which came to public this Wednesday, the court concluded that his gender was “pure fiction”.

"For 64 years I've lived with both sexes. I am proof that you can have a life without suffering a mutilating operation. I finally feel now that I have been recognized for what I am." said the 64-year-old to 20 Minutes.
"It was imposed upon him for his entire existence without him ever being able to express his deepest feelings." said Petkova.

The court ruled that by virtue of the person’s "right to private life, the birth certificate of Monsieur X, which for the past 65 years has attributed to him a masculine gender, should be rectified and now include a neutral status".

The state prosecution appealed the ruling, saying it meant de facto that France recognised a "third gender", which is not mentioned in any of its laws.

Since 2011, people born intersex can have a neutral status on their birth certificate. However, this is only temporal until a decision on the gender is made.

Petkova says that only two other countries in the world have reached similar decisions. In Australia, a person obtained a non-specific gender status, and in Nepal, a “third sex” is recognised.

As for France, transexual people, who have irreversibly changed sex, are allowed to accordingly change their gender status on forms.

Story Update 24/03//2016
Prosecutors challenged the decision and the Orleans Appeals Court on March 2016 re-designated Monsieur sex as a man. Judges said in their ruling:

"Accepting the plaintiff's request would require recognising, in the guise of a simple rectification of his personal records, the existence of another sexual category. It is necessary to find a fair balance between the protection of the state of persons, which is a public issue, and respect for the private lives of people with a variation of sexual development. This fair balance would allow either for personal records which mention no sexual category, or the modification of the gender which has been assigned to them when it is not in line with their physical appearance and social behaviour." 

The judges added that since the plaintiff was married to a woman, granting a request to change his civil status would contradict his "physical appearance and social behaviour".

"As a teenager I understood that I was not a boy. I didn't have a beard, my muscles didn't build. After doctors administered testosterone, my appearance became more masculine. It was a shock, I no longer recognized myself. It made me realize I was neither a man nor a woman." said Monsieur to France's 20Minutes last October. 

According to Mila Petkova, her client is "very disappointed" with the court's decision.

"This is an additional violence inflicted on my client, and we will appeal this decision in France's highest court and if necessary the European Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg. Several countries including Germany, Australia, New Zealand and Nepal officially recognise a third gender on official forms. India, Pakistan and Bangladesh also have an official third gender designation for so-called hijra citizens who do not identify as male or female."

*Intersex, in humans and other animals, is a variation in sex characteristics including chromosomes, gonads, or genitals that do not allow an individual to be distinctly identified as male or female. Such variation may involve genital ambiguity, and combinations of chromosomal genotype and sexual phenotype other than XY-male and XX-female.Often, intersex infants and children, such as those with ambiguous outer genitalia, are surgically or hormonally altered to create more socially acceptable sex characteristics. However, this is considered controversial, with no firm evidence of good outcomes.

Anonymous Micropenis Story (BDSM, SPH and other Kinks)

This story was submitted yesterday by an anonymous reader of the site:

My penis is 3" erect. As a result I got into BDSM where my Mistress would humiliate me. To make matters worse, I am sterile too. When my wife found out, she cut me off from intercourse and started a 30 year sexual relationship with her girlfriend. My wife chose wisely because she picked a girlfriend who was naturally dominant and angered over her recent divorce. She got to take it out on me and also humiliate me in front of my wife to further her position in our triad.

I heard the question, if it is in yet, as well as being asked if I came already because either I had fallen out or they did not feel me inside them at all. That was mostly a problem with women who had a kid and were stretched. However, I got to watch and assist two women have sex almost every night of the week.

A small penis has an advantage for women who like to perform oral sex or want to try anal. I was usually the only guy they could deep throat and feel like a porn start. A small penis made anal sex much less painful the first time. My penis is just a small part of my total package. I was attractive, funny and had a lot of money. A lot of women overlooked my penis side, or at least until we broke up.

I was mostly into S&M so an orgasm for me was rarely part of it. I was mostly told to masturbate or just ignored. I have not had intercourse for a very long time, about 30 years or more. Do not even remember what it feels like. For the last 2 years I have been locked 24/7 in a custom chastity cage. I do get to masturbate a few times each year but have sex a lot because my wife loves to tease and deny me while having all the orgasm she can take without having to do a thing to me.

Chastity cage example

We were never invited back to swap after wife swapping with other couples. I never was able to have intercourse with any of their wives. I mostly just watched my wife with other guys and wished I could get into all the positions they did. I cannot be embarrassed by my penis. I make fun of it too.

Most women are OK with sex focusing only on them. They get to orgasm and not have to reciprocate. I usually play with myself or get a handjob. I turned my small penis into an asset.

Friday, October 9, 2015

9 Best Condoms For Guys With A Small Penis For 2017

Let's face it:

You are reading these lines probably because your penis is too small and you can't find a condom that properly fits you. Maybe they are too baggy, slip all the time, or just don't feel "right" when you use them. Still, having a smaller sized penis doesn't mean you can't practise safe sex! Or maybe you are looking for something "tighter", hoping to enjoy intercourse more? Whatever your reason is, you have come to the right place! Down below you will find some of the most popular snug fit brands, a link to buy them online for the cheapest price and my personal opinion:

greater starter condom kit for guys with  a small or short penis 1# Snug Fit Small Assorted Sampler Pack
My first recommendation is to try this very affordable snug fit sample package offer by amazon. It comes with 3 different brands (and a total of 12 pieces). All 3 brands (Iron Grip, Atlas and Lifestyles) are known for being Snug Fit and provide a very secure and tight fit. The iron grip is the smallest of the 3, followed by the atlas and then lifestyles.

Many guys claim to have finally found the perfect fit for their little guy thanks to this offer. The price is also very good and very hard to beat considering the amount of pieces you get.

Click here for more information or to purchase

the 3sum lifestyle is one of the tightest snug fit condoms you can get
2# LifeStyles 3Sum
My next recommendation is The 3Sum by Lifestyles, which is probably the most popular snug fit brand in the market . Measuring 7.87″ (199.9 mm) x 1.8″ (47.73 mm), it's one of the most snugger-fit condom you can get. Interestingly, the package nowhere mentions the words "snug fit". Extra bonus: this condoms features ribs and studs which create a more stimulating experience for your partner.  

Again most reviews are highly positive, making it one of the most popular tight options for your little guy.

avanti bare latex are the shortest condoms made by a reputable company
3# DUREX Avanti BARE Latex Condoms
This is the thinnest condom manufactured by Durex. Make sure not to confuse it with Durex Avanti Bare Non-Latex when buying.

Slightly larger in girth but shorter when compared to 3Sum, at 6.62″ (193.54 mm) x 1.87″ (47.63 mm). Again, most reviews are very positive. To my knowledge, this is the shortest condom you can get!

4# Kimono Microthin Ultra
One of the thinnest and shortest condoms available in the market today. What makes the Kimonos so special is the special, water-based lubricant they use called Aqua Lube. This lube is pH balanced, long lasting and provides a silky and sensual feeling both for you and your partner.

The dimensions of this brand are 7.5″ (190 mm) x 1.87″ (47.63 mm).

Click here to view prices and availability

5# Okamoto Beyond Seven
The Okamoto is a great small condom imported from Japan. Unlike most brands, this one doesn't use latex but a material called Sheerlon which is very strong and durable - but thinner than latex - providing greater comfort and feel during sex without sacrificing durability!

Definitely, this brand is worth a try whether you have a small penis or not.. Personally I have tried it and I loved it and I consider it to be the best snug fit condom you can get, if reduced sensation during sex is an issue for you. It feels almost like going raw, and this comes from a guy who really hates wearing a condom! I think it's the thinnest brand too, or at least it feels like it is.

6) GLYDE Slimfit Premium Small Size
I have not personally the Glyde Snug Fit condoms, but all the reviews and testimonials out there are positive so I think they are definitely worth a try. According to the manufacturer, the GLYDE SLIMFIT is the smallest FDA approved condom, certified ethical and vegan by the Vegan Society and free of animal testing and animal by-products. Interestingly, these small condoms also come in extra small packages:)

fc2, the most popular female condom
7# FC2 (or any other female condom) - The micropenis solution
Unfortunately, the brands above will fit guys with a small, but still within the normal range penis. Something like 4 inches or more. Now, if you have a micropenis (a really small penis, 3.5 inches or less) they will probably not fit you, especially if your width size is small as well.

I think the use of a female condom is the only viable option for a truly thin or micro-sized guy who wants to play it safe. Regrettably, the industry doesn't offer something for guys who are 4 inches or shorter or are just too thin even for snug condoms...  I believe that the FC2 is the most popular option but there are certainly others to look out for. Click here for more info and prices

 The Fuji snug fit condom is perfect for guys with a small penis circumference8# Fuji Latex Just Fit Slim Tight 
This is a brand I encountered only very recently. I haven't tried the Fuji had but I plan to in the near future. I love the design of the package, all reviews are highly positive and the product is reasonably priced.

According to the description and online reviews, this brand is perfect for guys who have a circumference of less than 4.4 inches. Specifically, it has a width of 47 mm, way less than the standard 52-53mm that you usually find with a regular condom.

Click here for best price and more information

9# Little Willy Condoms
Ok, I just had to include this one for the laughs. It's more of a joke gift/novelty condom that comes in 'extra small' size!

Obviously, not suitable for use as a contraceptive device or for STD protection. According to the product description, they are 2 cm in diameter. No info is available  about length!

Click here for more info on this item

BUYER'S GUIDE (Frequently Asked Questions)

Here's a quick buyer's guide (in the form of a faq) that I will solve any problem or question you might have.

I am overwhelmed, please suggest me one!
Ok, ok I will spoon-feed you! I suggest you to get the sample package (first in the list) and the okamoto beyond seven (number 5# in the list). If you do so, you will have spend approximately 10 $ and you will have 4 different snugfit condoms to try. My personal favorite is the Okamoto, so if you are on a really tight budget just buy this one. As I mentioned before, it's made from a different type of latex that makes a huge difference during intercourse. I have personally tried it and it feels as close to raw sex as it can get!

If you just want the tightest fit, I think Iron Grip is what you are looking for. But beware, they are really, really tight! Caution, if you have a normal sized penis with an average diameter (like me) they will be very difficult to unroll! Personally, I kept losing my erection because i) it took me a lot of time to unroll and I would lose my erection, ii) even when I managed to put them and still had a full hard-on I would still lose erection because they felt so damn tight!

Why aren't some of these brands labelled as "small" or "snug-fit"?
My suspect is the only reason certain small condoms are not labeled as being “small" is because of how most men would react to them. Understandably, some men  don't want others to think they have a smaller than average penis!

Some quick tips before choosing a brand....
Here are some quick highlights you may want to keep in mind when choosing a condom brand:
  • When checking for dimensions, always go for girth over length. Remember, the average penis size is somewhere around 6 inches  whereas the shortest available condom (Durex avanti latex) is 6.62″.  I believe this is because due to FDA regulations regarding the size of condom testing equipment.
  • Don't look only for Snug-fit labelled condoms! Some brands (like LifeStyles 3Sum) make no mention in the label about being snug fit, but still are smaller or the same size as other snug fit brands
  •  Apart from size, the material used is also very important. Some guys (or their partner) are allergic to latex which is the most commonly used material. If you are one of them, look out for other options like polyurethane, polyisoprene or Sheerlon. Always make sure to check the label before making your final purchase! 
  • Be on the lookout for alternative codes, like "modest", "close-fit", "slim fit", "tapered" and "ultra fit"
  • Comfort comes first! If you find a brand that makes a perfect fit, but just doesn't feel right then look for something else! Don't hesitate to experiment with smaller or bigger brands! This is why my first recommendation is a sample package! 

How To Take Condom Measurements?
When choosing the right condom size, you might come across a lot of different numbers, including length, thickness, circumference and width. The width is the most critical aspect to consider as it determines how well it will fit on your penis. Regrettably, most guys don't know about width, have no idea what it is or confuse it with other things like the diameter. Hopefully, the quick guide below will clear any misconceptions you might have!

How To Measure Condom Width (And Circumference)?
To measure width accurately, lay the condom flat on a ruler and measure it from side to side. The width of the condom is equal to half of the circumference. This is because the width is measured with the condom unrolled and lying flat. Here's a picture showing the proper method for width:

pic shows the proper way to measure condom width

How to Measure Condom Length?
To measure length, just roll out the condom from base to tip and place it on a ruler as shown in the pic below:

pic shows the proper method to measure condom length

Regardless of the measurements, I recommend you to try out a few brands and sizes to test the waters out before settling with the one that feels better for your and your partner. This is because some manufacturers don’t display the exact width & length measurements and also because the material used also plays a role in how you fit inside. Like clothes, you can't really know until you try it on. Remember, each penis is different. Ideally, you want your condom to fit like a glove. It must be tight enough to prevent slippage, but sufficiently comfortable to make intercourse pleasurable!

Who are these condoms for? 
The brands above are recommended to guys who either have a small penis or those who want a really tight and natural feeling during sex. They can generally fit penises ranging from 4 to 4.6 inches in circumference and have a maximum length of 7.0 to 7.8 inches, depending on the brand. If you are bigger than that, then they will probably not fit you.

Please note that the smaller snug-fit condoms on the market aren't actually shorter, but tighter! Most of them have a length somewhere from 7 to 7.8 inches. The key difference lies in girth,with most of them having a flat width of less than two inches. This means that even if you have a short penis, you still might not fit in if your girth is above average. If you are unsure about your size, I suggest you to visit my guide that explains how to measure your penis length and girth properly.

Condom Size Chart
Below I have included a size chart with some of the snug-fit brands featured on this post. Hopefully, it will help you decide which brand(s) to try. The chart is broken down by first introducing the name of the condom, a brief description about it and finally the width and length size of that condom:

Chart showing the size of some popular snug fit condoms

Where to buy snug fit condoms?
You probably don't want other people to think that you have a small penis, so buying small condoms online is probably the best thing to do if you want to protect your privacy. As you can see, my links point to amazon. Usually the prices there are the cheapest or amongst the cheapest. Some other great & cheap places include Ebay, Adam and Eve and other online vendors. With a bit of googling I am sure you will find many other. In case you wonder, yes I make a very small commision (about 6 %) if you buy a brand using my links. This comes with no extra cost to you and it helps support the site. To give you an idea, if you buy the sampler pack (#1 in the list), the commission I get is approximately 0.30 $.

Now, if you prefer to visit a physical store I can't help you much. I once saw Lifestyles at Walmart but other than that I don't have any personal experience. Maybe someone more knowledgeable can leave a comment

As a final note, I will leave below an interesting related scientific study. This study reveals that the market needs more small condoms!

Scientific Study Confirms: Small Penises Need Love Too According To Medical Research!

micropenis condom (not real)
A 2009 survey on over 1,200 men concludes that the majority of the male population in India has a penis that is just too short for the standard sized International condoms, prompting calls to produce smaller condoms.

The study, carried out by the Indian Council of Medical Research, has led to a call for smaller-sized condoms to be made more widely available in India. Over 1,200 volunteers had their penises measured down to the last millimetre, both in length and girth of the country.  The researchers made sure the sample was representative of India as a whole in terms of class, religion and other factors.

The conclusion was that about 60% of Indian males have a penis that is between three to five centimetres (1-2 in.) shorter than the international standards used by condom manufacturers.

The issue is very serious since about one in every five times a condom that is used in India either falls off or tears, an extremely high failure rate. Not to mention that the country already has one the highest HIV infection percentage worldwide.

This research highlights a problem many men with a small or micro-sized penis have. And that is that - at to least to my knowledge - there are no commercially available condoms for men who are smaller than 4 inches!

Yes, small penises need love too!


Don't hesitate to leave a comment if you have any other condom suggestions for guys with a small or thin penis or if you know of a shop that offers them for a better price. I would be happy to include any suggestions, personal experiences, reviews or whatever!
(This buyer's guide was last updated on 17/01/2017)