Monday, October 10, 2016

Best Sex Positions and Tips for Guys with a Small Penis

How many times have you wondered whether your penis is big enough to satisfy you partner? Since you are reading these lines my guess is a lot!. And chances are that the smaller your penis is the more obsessed you are with your sexual prowess. Unfortunately, this insecurity combined with other technical problems rising from having a small one can turn sex into a real nightmare.

This is why I decided to create this huge post which I believe is the most complete and comprehensive list of small penis sex positions and tips for the less gifted men. The positions down below guarantee to offer deeper penetration, allow for more friction and, when combined with the right foreplay, result to a really satisfying intercourse experience. So take a look at the list and don’t hesitate to try the suggested positions until you find the ones that work best for you and your partner. Feel free to share your experience with us and leave a comment or any tips that might be useful to other visitors of our page.

Positions with Man on Top

The Lady’s Squeeze: You sit back on your heels and have your woman lie on her back. Lift her hips and enter her. Then place both her legs together over one your shoulders. Stabilise her legs so that they don’t slide off you shoulder.

In this position you will get deep and firm penetration. The female can vary friction when needed by tightening or loosing her legs. TIP: Ask her to do kegels while you penetrate her for extra friction and pleasure!

Missionary Basic Version: The woman lies on her back with her leg straights and you top her, with her legs on the outside.

Missionary -The squeeze: Like above, but the woman places her legs on the inside. The closer the legs the tighter the fit. This is a bit tricky to perform. Penetrate her first with only one leg inside her legs and then after you enter her, take it out and ask her to close her legs shut.

Legs of victory: The woman puts her legs straight up, towards the ceiling. Great for deeper penetration, but it can be bit tiring for the woman.

The vice: Like normal missionary, but the woman wraps her legs around you and pulls you inside her while you thrust her.

One leg bent, one leg straight: The best of two worlds. This position allows both clitoral stimulation (which is minimal when both legs are bent) and deep penetration (which is difficult with both legs straight). No need to compromise!

Knees and ears: The woman places both legs over your shoulders and crosses her ankles around you, resulting in a deep, tight fit.

Knees Bend: The female tilts her pelvis down, aims the vaginal opening downwards, and holds her knees bend and up toward her chest. Use some pillows to keep her head elevated. This position shortens her vaginal canal and increases pressure, friction and of course pleasure for both partners.

Table Fun: Have your woman sit on the edge of a table with the legs stretched open. Enter her and have her bend backward, wrapping her legs around you for deeper penetration. Your woman can also lie flat on the table, and you can either put both your hands on her hips to accelerate intercourse, or use your hands to play with her breasts and/or clitoris.

Rabbit Ears: Your woman lies down on her back, spreads the thighs and draws her legs up, until the knees are close to the ears. Then place a pillow under her bottom. This places the vagina at an angle that is perfect for small penises. When you are inside her it will feel like you’re filling her completely. Don't try this position if you have a big penis or if she has a small vagina. Regrettably, this position can be tiring so use your arms to hold the knees in place. TIP: For additional stimulation, the woman can play with her clitoris.

The Hook-Up: Flexibility is a must for this position! With the woman on her back, enter as you would for the missionary position. The woman then raises her legs and places them against the chest. Tight and deep penetration! Have her cross the ankles for extra friction!

The Amazing Butterfly: This position is all about correct alignment First, find a place where the woman can lie down and you can stand in front of her. The catch for this position is to find someplace where the woman can put her pelvis about a  foot lower than you. Maybe a desk, a counter or a high bed. Then your woman lifts her legs and rests them on your shoulders, tilting her pelvis upward so that her back forms a straight line angling up toward you. Place your hands under her hips to hold her ass in the perfect angle while thrusting. When done slowly, this position will give her an orgasm that she will never forget!

Positions with Woman on Top

Vadavaka: The woman on top can be an excellent position for guys who don't pack much of a punch as it allows maximal penetration. However, the classic version won't work well, since there is going to be a lot of slipping out which becomes very frustrating and unsexy after a while. In the Vadavaka variation, the woman sits on the man and “gyrates” and grinds around your penis. As always, kegels can enhance the experience for both partners. TIP: Don't forget to use your hands to play with the woman's breasts, clit, neck and other erogenous zones while she tops you!

Cocoon: You kneel on the bed and sit back on the heels. The woman sits astride your lap with her feet on the bed behind you. Then lock your arms around her back. She lifts her feet off the bed and leans back into you arms, raising her legs as high as she can. Penetrate and thrust her gently back and forth.

Cowgirl & Reverse Cowgirl: Both positions are great for maximum penetration. There might be a lot of slippage, so it's better if the woman does more grinding instead of going up and down. Use your hands to stimulate her clitoris and other erogenous zones.

Reverse Missionary: Like normal missionary but this time its the woman that lies down on you. The reverse missionary gives her more control on speed, angle and how she rubs her clitoris on your body. Since she is lying forward, this can be a great position (when angled properly) for g-spot stimulation.

Rear Entry Positions

Leaping Lizard (Standard Grade): The woman kneels on the bed and leans forward until the forearms, chest and head rest comfortably on the bed. The butt should be high up in the air. She can turn her face sideways to breathe better. Yes, it looks a lot like a yoga position. And yes, it does mean your butt will be high up in the air. This position allows you to thrust deep and hard. Furthermore, she is supporting herself so your hands are free to do all kinds of things!

Leaping Lizard (Higher Grade): The woman lies flat on her stomach with the legs together and you lay full length on top of her. Make sure to distribute your weight equally along her body. If you are still too heavy,  use your forearms to support some of your weight. This position is very sexy and dominant! The woman must arch your back and tilt her pelvis for easier access. Since the woman's legs are shut tight, the vagina provides a snug fit that is perfect for small penises.

The Tortoise: The Tortoise position is a fun position that can be slow, hard, sensual and erotic. However, it's a bit tricky to get it right the first time and as a result you might end up laughing instead of getting powerful orgasms. Start by having your woman lay flat on the bed, facing down. and straddle her from behind. The woman's legs should be straight and closed, resulting in a really tight squeeze when you enter her from behind. The Tortoise is designed for deep and tight penetration. You can thrust slowly and gently or fast and hard. It's up to you.

If you want to increase intimacy just lay flat on top of her and hold her breasts. You can also whisper or lick her ears during sex. If your weight is too much, use your forearms for support. Regretably, this position won't work well if your girl is too busty!

Doggie: Almost every guy love this position because it's animalistic and the view is just perfect! It can also be a great small penis sex position as it allows deep and tight penetration. Unfortunately, it doesn't always work well, especially if your lady has a really big booty.

On the Edge of the Bed: You sit on the edge of the bed with your legs spread. Then, your woman with her legs closed rides onto your penis. A very intense, tight and satisfying position.

Bonus - Set of Nine

Not exactly a position, but your woman (and probably you!) will love it.

Go first for nine shallow strokes, inserting only the head of you penis. Most nerve endings are found in the first three centimeters of the vagina, and this is why your woman will really love it. Then, go for one deep thrust and push your whole penis deep and hard inside her. By now, she will probably already be craving for it! Furthermore, since you will be inserting only the head at first, by the time you insert all of it, it will feel big even you got a small dick! Then give her eight shallow strokes and then two deep thrusts. Then 7 swallow and 3 deep, 6 swallow and 4 deep and so on. By the time you reach nine deep thrusts, it’s called a Set of Nine. If you have a girl that cums from vaginal sex, I guarantee you it will drive her crazy!

Tips To Satisfy Your Woman

Using the right sex techniques is just one piece of the puzzle to enhance the sexual experience with your partner! Here are a few tips that any man, regardless of penis size, can follow that will really turn a woman on before and during the sex act.

Tip 1. Be more confident in bed: This is the first and probably most important tip. Yes some women have issues with a small penis. But most women don't have issues with small penises but with the lack of sexual confidence lesser endowed men tend to have. If your penis is small it doesn't mean you should let go of your sexual confidence. If you enter the battle with a losers' mentality you have already lost it! If you think that you are inadequate and can't sexually satisfy a woman, guess what.... You won't!

Tip 2. Oral Play, Manual Stimulation and Sex Toys: Many men, regardless of penis size, know the importance of creativity in bed. Pounding a pussy for hours and hours won't turn you into a sex god... and there are many women out there who get little satisfaction from penetrative sex alone. Become a master of oral sex and use creativity to compensate for your small penis and I assure you that you will find many ladies who will be returning for more! Extra Tip: If you and your partner are "open minded" you can always use a penis sleeve to enhance her experience. They add girth and length to your penis and it will also delay your orgasm. After she is done and can't have more it's time for you to explode. Just take the sleeve out and finish in your preferred way. Another thing you can try is getting a set of  Ben Wa balls. Just insert them to the vagina while having penetrative sex and feel their subtle vibrations all over your penis and her vaginal walls for extra pleasure.

Tip 3. Being Sexually Aggressive: Guys with big dicks are often very aggressive in bed and this what makes them irresistible to some women. The right mix of sexual confidence, attitude and aggressiveness can be a major psychological turn on for a woman. All women want to be desired, pursued and dominated, regardless of cock size.

Tip 4. Use the right condom: If you are a small guy chances are you have slippage problems when using condoms. The act of wearing a condom is a buzz kill by itself and when done multiple times during the same session it can really kill the mood. Here's a list of the best snug fit condoms I compiled some time ago if you want some recommendations. The okamotos are my personal favorite.

Tip 5. Get in Shape: Being fit and eating right, will definitely improve your sex life. First, opt for some aerobic exercise to shed of those few extra pounds you have. Your penis will be visually bigger, you will look hotter and you will be able to pound harder and faster for longer periods of time!

Tip 6. Communication: Don’t be shy to ask what your partner likes or not. For example, there is a lot of variation on what women like during oral. Some like their clit to be sucked hard, some don't. Some love direct clitoral stimulation and others don't. Don't be afraid. Ask directly, even if you think you got everything figured out! Don't forget, what worked great for a previous partner might not do the trick for your current one!

Tip 7. Lifelong Sexual Education: Never make the mistake to settle with your current skills and sex-moves. Be always on the look out for new things, expand your horizons, mix things up and bring new things to the table!

Tip 8. Foreplay: Most small guys do give plenty of oral in an effort to overcompensate for their small dick. If you don't, it's never too late to start! But even if you are in the first category don’t just assume you are a master at it. You can always talk with your wife/girlfriend/whatever to find out if she likes it, where she wants it, how much, etc. Become an expert with your tongue and fingers and many women won't give a dime about your small penis!

Tip 9. Understanding Sexual Differences: The Kama Sutra got it right hundreds of years ago.. Penises and vaginas come in all sizes, small, average and big. The ideal coupling is something like: small & small, average & average, and big & big. If your coupling is not ideal you should put some thoughts on how to improve things.. The sex positions featured here are a very good start! There are always “toys” which can also add to your pleasure. But even if you have the “ideal coupling”, like both being small down there, things might not be perfect! For example, some traditional sex positions (like certain angles when spooning) might not work because the man's penis is not long enough and it slips out. Well.. just go for sexual positions that can maximize sexual pleasure without causing slippage problems! There's no shame in not doing each and every single position mentioned in the Kama Sutra! Regrettably, many couples have no clue about sexual differences and most importantly, what to do if there is a mismatch in sizes. Remember, experimenting can be a lot of fun.

Tip 10. Spontaneous Desire: Most women love the desire and lust their partner shows. It affirms their desirability and yes... they just love the attention. Touch, feeling, "grop” and give passionate kisses unexpectedly to demonstrate your desire. Try to be "animalistic" and purely sexual when doing so. Go for a passionate kiss and grab her ass when she least expects it.. If she is too busy just let her be for now...she will repay you later!

Tip 11. Spontaneous Sex: Spontaneous sex is the ultimate turn on for many women. It’s the "spontanteous desire" described before, taken on a level of its own. Sex should never be scripted or planned! Take her on the couch, the bathroom, the dinner table, the stairs, the office, the car, the beach the elevator, the whatever.. Believe me.. When a girl likes you she will want to be fucked hard, with passion and intensity..

Tip 12. Fine Her Erogenous Zones: One of the most erotic and sexiest things for a woman is a man who just knows how to handle her "spots". Typical female erogenous zones include the nipples, thighs, ears and back of neck. Each woman is different and may have one more personal favourites! Next time you are with her make sure to explore and play with her whole body thoroughly before moving to the main dish. When you hit a spot... you will know it! Extra Tip: If you are having a hard time figuring your woman just ask her out! Yes it might be an awkward conversation at first but she will thank you for that later!

Tip 14. Take her on Dates: Ask yourself...When was the last time you took your wife (or girlfriend) out on a date or a fancy dinner? Take her out for an evening and make sure to tell her ahead of time you want the two of you to go on a “date.” Have a nice romantic dinner, sip some wine and make that day just for the two of you. Don't play with your phone or something! Extra TIP: Instead of a typical "date" you might want to try something unique and exciting! Preferably, something you excel in to impress her! But try to be modest and not show of! Some ideas? Bowling, billiard, go-karts...even bungee jumping! Yeah, girls love those things. You will have fun, she will love it, and you will give her an experience she will remember for years to come!

What are you waiting for? Surprise her, try some of the ideas above and give her the orgasms you thought you never could!